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This one really cute thing
So I was lying on the floor in the kitchen, as parents of toddlers are wont to do, and Henry came up and sat down beside me. He touched his finger to my nose and giggled. That made me laugh, so we got caught in a temporary loop of doing that. He’s trying out this…
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Changes
November was a crazy month for us. On November 1, the twins turned one! On November 14, we flew with the twins to California, and took them to Disneyland for the first time on November 17. Also on November 17, I quit my job and accepted an offer to go to work with the amazing…
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Anticipation
This should provide a nice counterpoint to the Patience post, here. Anticipation can seriously enhance or seriously detract from an experience. Ahead of birthdays (depending on your age, of course), special holidays (Christmas, for me), and vacations/visiting friends, anticipation is a bit thrilling. It hypes the upcoming event like the best PR person in the…
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I voted!
I voted today! My husband and I went together, and we voted. No one harassed us, or tried to stop us. No one made it harder for us to vote. No one changed the rules at the last minute so we couldn’t vote. I’d like to say that’s because we live in America, but it’s…
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A year
One year ago today, Henry and Eleanor were born. Before they were born, they were Baby A and Baby B, and once they were born they became Baby Boy Ring and Baby Girl Ring. We couldn’t believe it when, three days later, the hospital sent us home with them. By ourselves! We needed help strapping…
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Patience as instruction
Patience is one of those funny things that is always inversely affected by your own sense of urgency. The more urgent your task, the less patience you can generally muster. But it’s also one of those things that can be cultivated. It’s hard, which is why people say that patience is a virtue. If it’s…
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Lunching with twins
I go visit the Ringlets at lunch. Today, a story about Henry. He is kind of obsessed about getting into stuff. Here’s a recent photo of him in the toy box at my parents. So today at lunch, he had found another box to get into. And, quite typically, Eleanor caught sight, and decided to…
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Trust
Early one morning last week, I was lying on my side when something woke me a little. I opened an eye and saw Eleanor; she was sleeping between us, and just stirring. I went back to sleep. Sometime later, I felt something lightly thud on my shoulder and chest. A little giggle. Then it went…


