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Breaking up the Band: Scaling Support
In July, I gave a talk at SDX 2017 in Portland, OR, on scaling support. My talk was about my experience working through dismantling my very large 18-person team prior to going on maternity leave. I touch on this in my post here. The following is my transcribed talk, along with my accompanying slides (but…
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Baller
How come in every photo it looks like the ball is holding him up?
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8 years
Eight years ago today, on a bright warm morning in Lake Placid, I married a guy. Bob. It was actually the afternoon, because we didn’t want a long wait between the ceremony and dinner. And because we had to have a late ceremony so that none of the Catholics present would have to go to…
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Skater grrrrrrl
I took Ele to hockey practice yesterday (and spent most of the time chasing Grant). “If he can walk, he can skate,” every adult mentioned to me as they desperately tried to wrest their stolen property back from Grant’s chubby grip.
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Clear weather
I feel so much better. On Saturday morning, we went on an easy hike along the Eno, and I think the fresh air, movement, and — most importantly — the vigorous sweating, helped to equalize all the pressure and get rid of excess fluid. Here are a selection of photos from the hike: In the…
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Loved
The kids made me get well cards (with a little help from Bob). Henry likes to cut out shapes, so he cut out the heart. The squiggles on the bottom left of his card says “mom I’m sorry you’re sick and I hope you feel better soon” ❤❤❤
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I in-cyst
In my follow up with the midwife today, I found out that I had a 3.9 cm cyst that ruptured. That isn’t a huge cyst – it’s somewhere between a strawberry and a lime. The cyst itself isn’t what hurts – it’s the rupture, when it spews blood and fluid into your abdomen. The result…
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Ovaries before brovaries
In which I go to the hospital At 3 am, I was woken up with intense belly pain. I woke up Bob, who wanted to take me to the ER, but I shrank from that idea. My pain is surely not that valid. At 9:00 am, I finally capitulated. He loaded up the kids and…


